FAQ

How should I address you?
Letharia, Master, Goddess, or Daddy, unless we establish something else during the scene. Refrain from using titles such as Miss, Mistress, or Ma’am.

What is your current availability?
I am accepting booking requests for November through December 14.
View my calendar here

What are your upcoming travel plans?
East Coast tour in December, exact cities and dates tba

How do I book a session?
• Visit my booking page and fill out the session request form
• A minimum notice of 24 hours is required for all new clients. Only on very rare occasion do I accept same day bookings with those whom I’m seen before. Additional tribute required for rushed planning.
• Additional screening information may be required at my discretion.


What are your rates?
Tribute is considered donation for my time only. Explicit requests for illegal activities will be met with silence.
No two sessions are the same, therefore my rates vary according to the variables that make your experience highly unique. Once you fill out the session request form, I will use that information to determine the appropriate tribute for my time and expertise. In general my base rate starts at 350/400 for one hour.
Couples add 50%
Virtual session information can be found here.
When traveling outside of Austin, my hourly rate starts at 450 + rental or hotel expenses.
Inquire for specialty scenes such as cuckolding, extended confinement, overnight, and additional players or observers.

What is your deposit and cancellation policy?
Deposits are standard practice, and are required without exception.
I require at least 24 hours notice for cancellations, in which case the deposit may be transferred to a rescheduled session within 6 weeks. If you reschedule more than once, the original deposit will be forfeited, and a new deposit will be required to re-book.
Cancellations with less than 24 hours notice must tribute 50% of the missed session in addition to a new deposit before rescheduling.
No call/ no shows must tribute 100% of the missed session in addition to a new deposit before rescheduling.

What amenities are available?
My collection of premium gear is vast, ranging from restraints, plugs and dildos, a Venus2000 milking machine, sophisticated electrical goodies and medical play equipment. My spacious, discreet studio includes a medical examination table, comfortable bondage/ cage bed, bondage chair, spanking bench, suspension bar, leather swing, and aftercare couch. A half bathroom is available with basic toiletries, however at this time I do not have a shower available. I advise bringing a change of clothes if you anticipate getting messy! Rest assured I will have no shortage of tools to amplify our session – however, the most dangerous weapon is my imagination.

Do you offer consultations?

Yes. At this time I only offer consultations over the phone or video calls.


What are your limits?
I avoid the following activities in my scenes:
• switching (I will be in control at all times)
• full toilet
• refusal to use a safe word
• race play or derogatory language toward marginalized groups
• anything to do with non-consenting adults
• illegal services


Will you do this specific activity?
If it is not listed under my limits, you may safely assume that I offer that activity. My interest and expansion of knowledge as a Dominatrix and fetish artist is constantly evolving, therefore I am happy to explore areas in which I am less experienced. I am eager to experiment on willing participants. However, if I am uninterested, or uncomfortable with your requests, I will reference you to another Dominatrix.

What is your favorite kind of submissive?
I enjoy playing with subs of all genders, sexualities, races, and abilities. My favorite submissive is one that can articulate their desires and limitations, as well as express pleasure. I do not vibe well with those who are stoic and have difficulty with communication.


May I apply to be your personal service sub?

No. At this time I have my hands full training a select few servants, though there may be future opportunities. Keep in mind I do not trade play for service.

Are you available for double sessions?
Absolutely. Let me know if you have someone specific in mind, otherwise I will gladly reach out to those I feel would be best suited for our session.


Will a safe word be used?
Yes. Always. Without exception.


I have never seen a Dominatrix before. Will you see me?
Yes – I feel that my style is very well suited for newcomers. As long as you are able to communicate what areas of BDSM you are curious about and would like to explore, we can go from there. Being nervous is completely normal.


How do I prepare for our session?

Once you have been placed on my calendar, I will follow up with detailed instructions. In general, impeccable hygiene is expected, and you should arrive on time with the remaining tribute in cash.


I have a question that isn’t answered on your website. May I contact you?

Yes. You may email me directly at contact@obeyletharia.com or call/text me here [link opens in new window]. 
Please be direct, concise, and respectful. I will not discuss your session at length until I have received a deposit. Otherwise, you are expected to tribute for my time. Be aware that I do not thoroughly discuss all aspects of sessions over the phone, by e-mail or by text. This is for my own safety (and yours). Exercise discretion and common sense.

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