FAQ

How should I address you?

Letharia, Master, or Goddess. Refrain from using titles such as Miss, Mistress, or Ma’am.

What is your current availability? (updated 9/19)

I am currently out of town for leisure. I am accepting pre-booking requests for mid October and November 2021.

How do I book a session?

• Visit my booking page and fill out the session request form
• A minimum notice of 24 hours is required for all new clients. Only on very rare occasion do I accept same day bookings with those whom I’m seen before. Additional tribute required for rushed planning.
• Additional screening information may be required at my discretion.

What is your tribute?

Tribute is considered donation for my time only. Explicit requests for illegal activities will be met with silence.

No two sessions are the same, therefore my session rates vary according to the variables that make your experience highly unique. Once you fill out the session request form, I will use that information to determine the appropriate tribute for my time and expertise. In general, Classic Domination rates start at 350 for one hour. Intimate Domination requires an additional 50+/hr at my discretion.

What is the difference between a Classic and Intimate Domination session?

The intimate option is best suited for the sensual submissive who craves domination delicately laced with erotic elements. There is heavier emphasis on sensual activities such as body worship, O control, and role reversal. This option may include two-way touch, where you will earn my affections  – a rare treat reserved only for the most well-behaved devotees.


What amenities are available?

My collection of devices is vast, ranging from restraints, plugs and dildos, to electrical and medical play equipment. My spacious, discreet play-space includes a medical examination table, comfortable bondage/ cage bed, bondage chair, spanking bench, suspension bar, leather swing, and aftercare couch. A half bathroom is available with basic toiletries, however at this time I do not have a shower available. I advise bringing a change of clothes if you anticipate getting messy!
There are other BDSM spaces available, which requires further discussion and an additional rental fee on top of tribute. Rest assured that wherever we session, I will have no shortage of goodies to play with – the most dangerous being my imagination!


What is your deposit and cancellation policy?

Deposits are standard practice, and are required at my discretion. They are dependent on a number of factors such as the location and length of your session. I require a deposit from all clients without exception.
My time is valuable, therefore I require at least 24 hours notice for cancellations, in which case the deposit may be applied to a rescheduled session within 6 weeks.
Last minute cancellations must tribute 50% of the missed session in addition to a new deposit before rescheduling.
No call/ no shows must tribute 100% of the missed session in addition to a new deposit before rescheduling.


Do you offer consultations?

Yes. At this time I only offer consultations over the phone or video calls.


What are your limits?

• No switching (I will be in control at all times)
• No full toilet
• No vomit
• No permanent bodily damage (ie: castration)
• No refusal to use a safe word
• No race play or derogatory language toward marginalized groups
• Nothing to do with non-consenting adults
• No illegal services will be provided


Will you do this specific activity?

If it is not listed under my limits, you may safely assume that I offer that activity. My interest and expansion of knowledge as a Dominatrix and fetish artist is constantly evolving, therefore I am happy to explore areas in which I am less experienced. I am eager to experiment on willing participants. However, if I am uninterested, or uncomfortable with your requests, I will reference you to another Dominatrix.


What is your favorite kind of submissive?

I enjoy playing with subs of all genders, sexualities, races, and abilities. My favorite submissive is one that can articulate their desires and limitations, as well as express pleasure. I do not vibe well with those who are stoic and have difficulty with communication.


May I apply to be your personal service sub?

No. At this time I have my hands full training a select few servants, though there may be future opportunities. Keep in mind I do not trade play for service.


Are you available for double sessions?

Absolutely. Let me know if you have someone specific in mind, otherwise I will gladly reach out to those I feel would be best suited for our session.


Will a safe word be used?

Yes. Always. Without exception. Your safety is my top priority.


I have never seen a Dominatrix before. Will you see me?

Yes – I feel that my style is very well suited for newcomers. As long as you are able to communicate what areas of BDSM you are curious about and would like to explore, we can go from there. Being nervous is completely normal, but remember that everyone was a novice at one point.


How do I prepare for our session?

Once you have been placed on my calendar, I will follow up with detailed instructions. In general, impeccable hygiene is expected, and you should arrive on time with the remaining tribute in cash.


I have a question that isn’t answered on your website. May I contact you?

Yes. You may email me directly at contact@obeyletharia.com or call/text me here [link opens in new window]. 

Please be direct, concise, and respectful. I will not discuss your session at length until I have received a deposit. Otherwise, you are expected to tribute for my time. Be aware that I do not thoroughly discuss all aspects of sessions over the phone, by e-mail or by text. This is for my own safety (and yours). Exercise common sense.

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